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Blog  /  August 15, 2019

2 Lessons Learned in Year 2 of Marriage

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In two days, Blake and I are officially two years into marriage. That’s 730 days. Holy moly. Sometimes it feels like a lifetime, other days it feels like we just met. But, one thing is for sure: my life is 10000 times better as Blake’s wife. And over the past two years, I’ve been blessed to walk through this new season of marriage with my best friend. 

Not to brag or anything, but I have the best husband ever. Sorry, it’s true.

Without a doubt, marriage with Blake has been the the greatest blessing. Blake and I have both grown individually, and together. We’ve spent many hours connecting, laughing, praying, and making the best of memories. In all honesty, merging two lives into one makes for some pretty laughable moments!

With that said, I want to paint a real and accurate picture for y’all. Although our marriage is thriving, it is also far from perfect or easy. While we’ve experienced some really high highs, we’ve also cried and argued. Blake has seen me at my worst and I’ve seen Blake at his worst. We’ve faced some hard challenges within two years time. It may sound cliche, but it’s true: the challenging times have allowed our marriage to grow stronger and better than the day we got married. Looking back on the past two years, I can confidently say our marriage is not a result of luck. And, it’s certainly not due to the “honeymoon” phase, as some may assume. In fact, I can identify two key reasons why our marriage has succeeded in the ways it has. And no matter your relationship status- whether you’re married, single, divorced, or dating, I’m confident you will be able to resonate with these reasons, too. Because honestly, they can be applied to any marriage, relationship, future relationship, or friendship.

It’s because of these two reasons that Blake and I are more in love today, than we were two years ago. It’s why we’re able to put aside our selfish desires (most of the time) to serve each other. And, above all, it’s the reason we think marriage is the best thing ever!

2 Lessons Learned in 2 Years of Marriage 

1. Jesus Makes Marriage Better

Going into marriage, Blake and I already knew we wanted a marriage built on the love of Christ. But, every day since saying our vows, I’ve learned just how essential this actually is. Without Jesus, selfishness, worldly temptations, lies, and poor attitudes slowly creep into marriage. Brick upon brick is stacked until a solid wall is built, hearts are hardened, and before you know it, you no longer recognize your spouse. However, when Jesus plays an active role in marriage, there is no room for brick walls or hardened hearts. I’m just going to say it like it is: Jesus makes everything better and marriage is no exception. Jesus is the reason Blake and I can love one another selflessly and unconditionally.

Practically, prioritizing Jesus in our marriage looks like:

  • Surrounding ourselves with Godly community
  • Seeking Godly wisdom when we need it
  • Praying, individually and together
  • Studying the Bible, individually and together
  • Speaking the truth, in love, to one another

There is no doubt that we are better at this in some seasons than others. But, it is always something we strive for and hold ourselves accountable to.

2. Be a Student

Never stop learning- about your spouse, yourself, and your marriage. In Blake’s self-written wedding vows, he promised to always be a student of me. And I am proud to say that he has followed through on his vows. He is the best at checking on the state of my heart, learning about my needs, and intentionally loving me well.

One of the best decisions Blake and I made is to continuously invest in our marriage. By investing, I mean intentionally working at our marriage. We’ve participated in pre-marital counseling, newlywed classes, marriage bible studies, and church community. We make it a point to stay regularly involved in this activities. Through these various opportunities, we’ve slowly gathered the tools, learned the skills, and put in the effort to help our marriage thrive. The point is: investing in your marriage or relationship is so worth it. 

To wrap it up, there’s no doubt that the past two years of marriage with Blake have been the best. They’ve been full of growth, learning, and most importantly, love. Obviously, this post is a little different than the norm. So, if you made it this far, I appreciate you reading! If you don’t know already, in addition to nutrition and health, I have a strong passion for marriage. That is, Godly marriage. And, Blake and I are not shy about sharing our lessons learned, struggles, and triumphs. So, stay tuned for future marriage posts.

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As someone who aims to as many real, whole foods a As someone who aims to as many real, whole foods as possible (and always GF), I’ve learned a thing or two about “healthy baking.” Here are the swaps I always make in my baked goods for healthy hormones, metabolism, and tastebuds! 👇🏼

• Grass fed (raw, if possible) butter instead of oil 
• @bobsredmill 1-to-1 GF flour instead of all purpose flour
• Raw sugar, coconut sugar, honey, or maple syrup instead of white sugar 
• Substitute a little bit of the flour with protein powder or collagen (usually about 10% of the total flour)
• Grass fed (raw, if possible) milk > nut milk
• Cassava, oat, or GF blend flour > almond flour

Save this post to refer back to this season! And, happy baking 🧁🍪

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Why I prefer to shop locally 🍎🥑🥕⠀⠀⠀ Why I prefer to shop locally 🍎🥑🥕⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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🍎 Most local foods are in-season, providing the most nutrients and best flavor!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
🍎 I love the opportunity to support local farmers and small businesses.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
🍎 I know exactly where my food came from. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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🍳 Eggs⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
🍓 Fruits⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
🥕 Veggies⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
🍯 Honey⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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It’s been a hot minute since I’ve shared new c It’s been a hot minute since I’ve shared new content, but the Fall season is my absolute favorite (as are Fall foods), so I figured it’d be a good time to pop back on!

Fall foods to nourish your body 👇🏼

These foods are naturally their ripest and MOST nutrient-dense during the Fall season, which is why I load up all season long!
🥕 Carrots
🥔  Sweet potatoes
🍠 Beets
🎃 Pumpkin 
🍆 Squash 
🍎 Apples
🍐  Pears
🧄 Garlic

Other Fall staples that I include on a daily basis during the Fall:
✨ Bone broth
✨ Beef liver
✨ Fresh orange juice
✨ Raw honey
✨ Raw milk

These are a few of my favorite recipes to increase my consumption of Fall foods 😋
👉🏼 GF cassava pumpkin bread
👉🏼 Roasted fall veggie medley
👉🏼 Raw milk hot cocoa
👉🏼 Chili made with bone broth 
👉🏼 Apple crisp

Do you love Fall foods as much as I do??

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Your diet is only as beneficial as your digestion. Your diet is only as beneficial as your digestion.

Fact #1: You can eat all the healthiest foods in the world, BUT if you’re aren’t digesting and absorbing the nutrients, what’s the point?

Fact #2: Most of us have very poor digestion. In other words, we lack stomach acid and enzymes to break down and absorb the nutrients in our food. Signs of poor digestion = acid reflux, indigestion, stomach aches, bloating, constipation or diarrhea, and gas.

Sooooo, now what’s a girl (or guy) to do?

There are a few ways to help support healthy digestion and actually utilize the nutrients you’re eating, starting with:

	• Avoid drinking water (or any liquid) within 30 minutes of meal time. Liquids dilute the acid in your stomach leading to poor digestion.
	• Address any gut issues (SIBO, H. pylori, dysbiosis) that could be robbing your digestive tract of the ability to absorb nutrients.
	• Focus consuming plenty of whole foods that are rich in digesting-boosting nutrients, like: pastured whole eggs, grass fed beef, organic fruits, raw milk, etc.

Did you know you’re likely not absorbing all the nutrients you’re consuming??

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There's a good reason carbohydrates make up ONE of There's a good reason carbohydrates make up ONE of the 3 essential macronutrients (protein, carbs, and fat).⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Truth be told, carbs are a necessary and HEALTHY part of every diet. However, is one major issue that needs to be addressed.. THE OVERCONSUMPTION OF PROCESSED CARBS.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Did you know that carbs are essential? What's your favorite source of carbs? 😋
Unpopular opinion: your liver is the coolest organ Unpopular opinion: your liver is the coolest organ.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Instead, if any of these symptoms sound like you, it’s time to give your liver some extra lovin’ 👉🏼 incorporate more liver-loving foods (beets, OJ, cilantro, beef liver), drink dandelion root tea, try castor oil packs, eliminate toxins from your home (plastic, fragrance, pesticides, etc), and get your SLEEP! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Tag a friend and spread the liver love! 💕⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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PSA: the foods you eat directly impact your thyroi PSA: the foods you eat directly impact your thyroid!!! And, did you know most of us are currently dealing with some kind of thyroid dysfunction?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Some foods actually work against our thyroid function, like processed foods, trans fats, PUFAs, cruciferous veggies, and even other raw veggies…⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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While other foods work FOR our thyroid, supporting healthy function. These foods include:⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
• Seasonal fruits⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
• Root veggies⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
• Raw, local honey⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
• Pastured whole eggs⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
• Grass fed beef liver⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
• Wild caught oysters⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
• Raw cheese⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
• Sourdough bread⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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In all honesty, life has been BUSY lately, my crea In all honesty, life has been BUSY lately, my creativity is lacking, and social media hasn’t been at the top of my list😅 

But, this morning, I want to leave you with a few basic reminders to help support healthy hormones, metabolism, and immune function! 

✨ Toddlers need to eat 1,200 calories a day. YOU are not a toddler. Most adults need to consume ~2,000 calories daily, if not more. Don’t understand-nourish yourself!

✨ Sleep is necessary to form memories, build muscle, and support healthy immune function. Make it a priority to sleep at least 8 hours per night!

✨ Breakfast is actually the most important meal of the day. No, coffee doesn't count. My go-to breakfast lately = sourdough toast + honey, eggs + sea salt, and coffee with raw milk. Easy and delicious!

✨ Over-exercising is as dangerous as being sedentary. Exercising too much creates extreme stress within the body. Learn to rest and allow time for your body and muscles to properly recover!

Did you know these friendly reminders?!

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